News of the Oaks
by Bucket ()
News of the Oaks
Jun 07 – Jan 08
By Ezra with assistance from Mala and Gordon
Well, it's been a while since the last News of the Oaks came out, right around the time of our 40th anniversary, and we're pleased to report that the intervening eight months have been (generally speaking), a time of relative peace, stability, and prosperity.
Despite a relatively high turn-over rate, and the departure of several long-term members, population has remained in the eighties. Among the old-timers to strike out on their own this fall were Alder, Amy, Jack, Inge, and Indigo. Jake, who we all hoped might come rushing home, is still living in Savannah with George, and writes that he doesn't even miss Twin Oaks anymore.
On the other hand, this fall has seen the return of the oldest old-timer of them all-- Kat Kinkade! At the end of 2007 Kat returned as a full-time member, after 7 years of living in Mineral, and moved back into Nashoba (see interview with Kat in this issue).
While our adult population remains stable, our child population has continued to fall, and is now at its lowest point in many years: 7 full-time kids, two half-time kids, and one kid on sabbatical. Although the child population has been shrinking, our young folks themselves have continued to grow, and thanks in part to a new child labor policy, are becoming more integrated into the community than in the past. Rowan, now 11, has thrown himself into his duties as chef, and has been helping with meals in ZK kitchen every week. Kids have also been tutoring at Reading Window, helping with road maintenance, and primarying younger kids.
(read more by clicking on title of this article)
News From Sandhill
by sorghumco ()
SANDHILL NEWS – 2007
By Stan. Jan 5, 2008.
I usually enjoy annual newsletters sent to us by friends. Here is my first attempt. For more info, see our website: www.sandhillfarm.org
Current members: Renay, Apple, Gigi, Michael, Laird, Kathe, Stan
Community abbreviations: dr – dancing rabbit; ref – red earth farms; to – twin oaks; ew – east wind
DECEMBER ‘06
* we purchase a small coffee roaster (size of a kitchen food processor) to spice up our coffee enjoyment: fresh roasted beans, green beans are cheaper, etc. this is one of my dreams come true – BUT in 1st year of operation, we send it back to factory (warranty) FOUR times to be fixed. But it’s roasting now…
* we have our first homegrown lemon (Meyer potted lemon tree).
* Gigi & Renay go to grand canyon over Renay’s xmas break from school. They also visit Gigi’s old friend and her family in Flagstaff. They bring back photos & stories
* Otto, Stan, & Sue put up a large shed roof for sorghum firewood
* Geoph Kozeny celebrates his birthday with us (Dec 28). (We have no idea it will be the last – he dies oct 22)

JANUARY
* Laird, Maikwe, & Jibran are forced to vacation (two days, including new year’s eve – whoopee!) in motel in Amarillo TX on their way to Albuquerque due to a blizzard shutting down I-40
*stan goes to Seattle by train for fec (federation of egalitarian communities) meetings at emma goldman community. He stays with Jon & Shawn (former jolly ranchers) and visits friends: Brad in Seattle, Nancy & Julie in Olympia and Bekka, formerly at Sandhill, now in Port Townsend. The long train ride is magical (no train/computer – a time between the worlds): I am moved to write a travelog, which leads to others, and now THIS!
*we celebrate Kathe’s 60th birthday: a yummy meal & scrumptious cake
Blog Post: The Pitfalls of Proposals from Meetings People Miss - by Laird
by Bucket ()
Laird has written in his blog about the upcoming FEC Assembly and the PEACH discussion that is scheduled to take place.
PEACH is one of the benefits of FEC membership. It is a program of self-insurance to cover catastrophic health care costs.
While this operates under the auspices of the Federation, the governing bodies for FEC and PEACH are distinct. The Federation is governed by delegates from each member community, and PEACH is governed by a body comprised of one representative of each participating community. This person is called a MELBA (Member Expected to Look after Basic Affairs). Any correlation between delegates and MELBAs is coincidental, and delegates have no authority over PEACH.
Here is a link to the article:
http://communityandconsensus.blogspot.com/2008/02/pitfalls-of-proposals-...
Willow Catches a fish
by Paxus ()

i have a cool kid. Kids are an amazing crap shot, you dont know what kind you will get and you don't necessarily have that much control over how they come out (parents love to think that they do, but the other factors often overwhelm their efforts). i got lucky.
Willow has some wonderful primaries (people who regularly spend a couple hours a week with him, getting labor credits for this work in my communities elaborate work system). Yesterday, Trout took Willow to the pond with a fishing rod and some of our vegetarian sausage. They were going fishin'.
Our pond is tiny. Since it is principally for swimming, it was designed with upstream filters and catchment pools so it would not have fish in it. But life only being secondarily concerned with the will of man (sic), other things happened.
As Willow tells it, they put a small piece of soysage on to the hook, Trout did the casting and Willow pulled it in slowly. The did this a dozen times with no effect. Willow convinced Trout to pull the hook and afix a larger piece of soysage to the hook and within moments a fairly good size fished, probably a trout (no relations) was snagged. Willow pulled it in with great joy and mild trepidation.
fun with kimya dawson
by Tikvah ()
so last night kimya dawson (whose musics appear all over the soundtrack for that movie "Juno") came to visit us and give us a private show... in exchange for a hammock!
it was pretty awesome. her songs always make me happy in the way that a good poem makes me happy, or a walk in the woods. but the best part was that her little 1-year-old daughter, named "Panda", was playing and making cute kid noises with the other little kids here throughout the whole show.
the kids kept randomly playing with a tambourine and kimya laughed and commented on it, acting as if it was part of the songs. later, Panda was autographing people's cds with squiggley lines and she randomly drew some pictures on my arm.
the entire show was adorable, including the backdrop behind the "stage" (AKA our dining room), which was a bedsheet with little shapes of various pastel colors sewn together.
oh, and "Purl", one of the resident artistic geniuses here (who makes deranged carved wooden things and paints them) put on a puppet show as the opening act to kimya. here's a picture of his puppet show from a while ago, so you can get an idea of the awesomeness-- he has a little strap-on puppet stage with a rotating paper scroll for the background, and little cardboard puppets drawn with marker who have moving parts (not to mention, stories about kids who are part whale and people who get stuck in their carpet and become half-human half-carpet).... anyway, i thought it was pretty amazing that kimya dawson came here to visit us for a day and play musics for us, since i guess i thought of her as one of those far-away famous type folks, except that she's a normal human like the rest of us. a bunch of her songs are in that movie "Juno", but she was talking about it and saying that she doesn't want to sell out or get all trapped by mainstream success. she's pretty awesome and today at lunch i gave her a hug and wished her luck in her adventures....
Transgender in Community
by Bucket ()
The following article was written by Calliope, a new member at Twin Oaks Community.
Trans in Community
by Calliope Kurtz
As a feminist culture, at Twin Oaks we tend to disregard traditional gender roles and behavior. Women and men choose their roles in the community based on their interests, strengths, and passions, not on anyone else's preconceived notions. Women and men operate chainsaws and drive tractors, and men and women cook and care for children. We all wear clothing we find comfortable - pants for working in, skirts for coolness or festivity, heedless of mainstream ideas of "acceptable" fashion choices. Our commitment to fostering a supportive and joyful environment for all people - women, men, lesbians, gays, and children - is an integral part of Twin Oaks Community.
Those were the words, more than any others on the Twin Oaks website, that offered me hope.
How To Visit an Intentional Community
by Bucket ()
How To Visit an Intentional Community
by Kat Kinkade
Kat Kinkade of Twin Oaks gives a communitarian's perspective on visitors. She discusses visiting etiquette, gives practical advice on how to get the most out of one's visit, and offers valuable insights about how prospective members may be viewed by existing community members.
The mechanics of visiting a community aren't very difficult. One writes a letter, waits for a response, follows directions, and that's that. But assuring oneself of a fruitful and satisfying visit is another matter. Most communities spend considerable time and energy talking about and worrying about optimizing visitors' experiences. Yet there are still shortcomings and miscommunication from time to time. Visitors can help by doing some thinking ahead of time to set themselves up for a good visit. This article is full of advice to the prospective visitor. Read it with your own plans in mind. Maybe it will give you some ideas.
It is useful to consider the question: Why is this particular community open to visitors at all? What do they want or need from them? I think it's safe to say that most communities that advertise in a directory are keeping an eye out for people who might join them. They may be openly seeking members, or they may be only selectively open, watching for someone with a high degree of compatibility.
Retreat!
by amySooo, now that the excitement of the ceremony is all over and the big traveling is all over, things are finally starting to settle down for me. [insert usual promise of keeping this blog more up to date] Dancing Rabbit is in the middle of its yearly retreat -- which is always a treat. We meet and talk all about what the upcoming year is going to look like and get ourselves all organized. One of the highlights for me is the YIP (Year In Preview) where we all get a chance to get on (or off) of committees and responsibilities. Looking at the big chart of names and tasks really helps me think about where I want to put my energy in the coming year.
One thing that I'm really excited about is all of the new folks that are coming this spring! We have almost 10 new people who have been approved for residency and I'd like to help them feel welcome and get settled down. I've always been an advocate for growth here and getting new folks to stay is part of that.
As usual, I'm still helping out with Outreach and the Visitor Team and a few other committees and tasks, but I'm trying not to spread myself too thin. Gardening season is almost upon us and I have to start thinking about that. There are so many things here that I want to do, but I never have enough time for everything!
Skyhouse is looking for new members, so maybe having a few extra hands around the house will help spread the responsibilities out a bit. That will free me up for making cupcakes! (Thanks Isa!) Oh obsessions, how can I ever sate thee! :)
The Big 3-0
by amyHappy birthday to me! Another fun birthday in community. I don't update this journal very often, so if you scroll down, you can see my birthday entry from last year. *tee hee!* In any case, this year was rather low key. The weather was so hot, I was trying not to exert myself too much. Melting on my birthday would not have been my first wish. :)
My day started with a fantastic breakfast made by my sweetie and one of my community mates (the other was out of town). Fresh blackberry pancakes and hash browns. Then, a few of the usual Sunday meetings and ice cream sundaes. We got a big tub of Temptations chocolate chip cookie dough (made by the Chicago Soydairy) with chocolate syrup, sprinkles and the piece de resistance -- Soyatoo Soy Whipped Topping! All we needed was a jar of maraschino cherries. Sooo yummy. The afternoon was spenk hanging out and relaxing. Then it was time for makeup, nail polish and dressing up for my special sweet birthday dinner.
My love organized the whole thing. I dressed up in my fancy flapper costume (complete with cigarette holder and fake eyelashes) and arrived at the Common House. Inside, the tables were covered with tablecloths and each place was already set. Music played in the background as the "servers" all came around and served us dish after dish of sweet food! There was cabbage and beet salad, baked beans, berry scones, homemade chips with spicy peach salsa, cake, applesauce, cookies, chocolate chip waffles, and more! In the end, we were all stuffed and raving about the wonderful things people prepared.
After the sugar crash, we all sat on the front porch of Skyhouse and talked about whatever came to mind. As the night started winding down, Cecil played me a special birthday song that he had written years ago for a different friend who turned 30. All in all the day was really special. I felt loved and happy to be growing alongside people I care about in such an amazing community.
Ethan's Blog
by Ethan ()
Speaking of eating together...
by amyFriday nights are special nights at Dancing Rabbit. At 6:30pm, we all gather in the Common House for Community Dinner. Unlike our Potluck with Sandhill, we each bring our own plates of food to Community Dinner. We used to have "check-ins" after dinner where everyone would share where they're at with the group, but we haven't been doing that so much as of late. Instead, we've had group discussions, musical jams and movies. Either way, I'm glad to have time to spend with my fellow Rabbits.
Today, I spent most of my time working on different design projects. A large portion were parts of the upcoming Communities Directory that that Fellowship for Intentional Community puts out. Tony and I are working together on it, so I'll probably be writing about that more as the deadline for going to press gets closer. My big non-FIC project for the day was working with Laura on the new Dancing Rabbit brochure. She's writing and editing the copy and I'm designing the look. I am really enjoying working on a project for DR. Spreading the sustainability mission is one that I feel very passionate about.